Men Can’t Be Trusted With the Contraceptive Pill

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  • Aug 10, 2025

A New Era in Contraception: The Male Pill is on the Horizon

The male contraceptive pill has taken a significant step closer to becoming a reality, with the potential for it to be available in the next few years. This development marks a pivotal moment in reproductive health, offering a new option that could shift the balance of responsibility between men and women.

The drug in question, known as YCT-529, has passed initial tests indicating its safety for human use, with no reported side effects. This is a promising sign, especially considering the long-standing expectation that women bear the primary responsibility for contraception. For many, this imbalance has felt unfair and unjust over the years.

Despite the positive news, the online discourse surrounding the male contraceptive pill has been mixed. Many people have raised concerns about whether men can be trusted to take the pill consistently. These questions are not new; they resurface periodically, often eliciting similar reactions from the public.

In 2019, The Sun’s Joely Chilcott expressed her skepticism, stating, “I can’t trust my fiancé to remember to put the bins out, let alone take charge of taking a pill every day to stop me getting pregnant.” Fast forward to 2024, and Helen Coffey wrote for the Independent, expressing similar sentiments about the lack of trust in men. Even more recently, Amol Rajan posed the question on Radio 4, asking if some men might struggle with taking a pill daily for an extended period.

While these concerns are understandable, they raise uncomfortable questions: Are men really that unreliable? And why do so many women hold this belief?

A 2022 survey by the American Chemistry Society found that although 49% of men would be willing to take a daily contraceptive pill, 42% of women were worried that men would forget to take it. This is perplexing, given that men take medication regularly for various conditions. For instance, I have been taking Sertraline for depression for over a decade, and it’s part of my daily routine. I also use a preventative inhaler for asthma and GLP-1 injections for weight loss, all of which I manage without issue.

Gay and bisexual men, like myself, have been taking PrEP – a daily pill that prevents HIV infection – for years. The NHS estimates that over 100,000 people in England are currently on PrEP, with the majority being men who have sex with men. They take it religiously because their lives depend on it. Similarly, HIV-positive men take antiretroviral therapy daily, and trans men take testosterone regularly.

Given this context, the idea that men cannot handle daily medication seems unfounded. Moreover, studies show that around 50% of women miss the pill at least once a month due to forgetfulness. This suggests that concerns about male reliability may be more about projection than reality.

So why does this myth persist? It may stem from issues related to bodily autonomy and reproductive control. For decades, women have borne the physical and emotional burden of preventing pregnancy, enduring hormonal side effects, weight gain, mood swings, and decreased libido. These experiences have led to hesitancy in trusting men with contraception.

Historical precedents also contribute to this skepticism. There have been instances of reproductive coercion, where men have deceived women about using contraceptives. A 2017 study from Bournemouth University found that one in four women reported experiencing coercion over their reproductive choices.

Even if women can overcome these concerns, there are deep-seated attitudes on the male side that could pose challenges. Some men may worry about appearing less masculine or fear that the pill might affect their libido. These outdated notions about masculinity could prove more problematic than trust issues.

Both genders need to address these issues. The current setup is imbalanced, with women having access to a range of contraceptive options while men are limited to condoms and vasectomies. This lopsided situation places an unfair burden on women, both physically and financially.

If we can trust men to take life-saving medications for conditions like depression, HIV, diabetes, and others, we should also trust them with contraception. The real question is whether we are ready to move beyond outdated assumptions that have kept reproductive responsibility so one-sided.

The introduction of the male contraceptive pill is a significant step toward equality in reproductive health. It’s time to rethink our expectations and embrace a more balanced approach to contraception.

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